Dating 20 years younger

Things never worked out plus why would I date someone who is going to have prostate problems too soon? I dumped him because he was dumb I've gone -9 and 7, currently at -4. As for the age difference, I don't see anything wrong with the age gap. Take it from a southern girl, don't break The Rule or it will come back to bite you in the ass. When I was 22 I dated a guy 16 years my senior, the truth is my parents were getting a divorce and I just wanted to leave home. Weird though that you would post on an Internet forum for attention.well yes ..she is nice looking and you think .the hell is she interested in me you cant be sure she just loves the sex ..the good time...)) .may even have an eye on your wallet... I have difficulty imagining that she's turned on by men of that age but he's getting what he wants, and when he passes on she gets what she wanst which is just as well seeing he can't take it with him. However, a good friend of mine who is (or will be sometime this year) 56, has a girlfriend of 23 (or perhaps she'll be 24 this year) for over a year, so that's 32 years younger! I have a female friend that once told me that she thought -12 was fine when we were discussing such matters (she is only one year younger than I). Meanwhile, my girlfriend's father was 12 years older than her mother (and she was born when he was 49), and I have other friends whose father was 21 years older than their mother, and in both cases they were married (or at least together, her parents lived together for 12 years before getting married) for 50 years or more. Many young women at that age are quite mature, and simply don't want to put up with guys her age.They’re more experienced, more chivalrous, and more likely to want to settle down than a twentysomething party boy.Older men, it seems to me, are like gold dust on the dating scene right now.should i take this seriously .just enjoy the sex...? well yes ..she is nice looking and you think .the hell is she interested in me you cant be sure she just loves the sex ..the good time...)) .may even have an eye on your wallet... I know a guy in his mid 70s who's married a Brazilian mail-order bride in her early 30ies.

Okay, Evan, I agree mostly with your opinion on younger men/older women. I mean, I can see why an older man would want to date a younger woman – physically that is, but why would a 28-year-old woman want to date a man 45 or more? I can totally understand why older men go for younger women.

If you want to get people into a heated discussion, forget politics or religion — bring up an older woman wanting to date a man half her age.

I could relate to where she was coming from actually, as I find most women (and men) cannot keep up with me either!

It's the same when a middle-aged man who gets divorced and wants to date 25-year-old women and he gets ridiculed for that even more than for buying that (Remember that song by Prince? However, it has never been such a big deal to see an older man with a younger woman because it is fairly common.

(In fact, there are many men wanting to date much younger women, but never actually getting an opportunity to do.) Even if people do not approve, they are not surprised.