You accomplish this by creating a fun, enjoyable atmosphere that gets her excited to reply.
To start, there’s one thing you should know that will greatly affect your response rates… I did a huge post about it and nearly all of the profiles I critique suffer from crappy photos. The guys don’t smile, are unkempt, and look like the dating site murderer (pictured above).
If you want online dating to be successful, the first message is crucial.
Imagine being the home team at a baseball game and you are up to bat.
You wait for the right pitch, swing your bat, and hope for the best.I get it, but we’re trying to find long-lasting relationships, not just flashes in the pan. You don’t have to read the whole thing cover to cover, but skim it enough to retain some information about them. Good Example: “Hi there, I noticed you mentioned you like skiing.I grew up in upstate New York and skied a lot also, as the winters there can last almost eight months! I saw two of your pictures were of you on the beach. On a serious note, I loved reading your profile and I look forward to hearing more about your volunteer work with the humane society! If so, I’m totally down to hang out with you haha Mexican cuisine is my absolute favorite! Would you like a list of my colognes now or after our first date?